The idea for this Foundation was born on Sunday
March 11, 2001 during a sermon by Pastor Matt Smith of Grace
Community Church. In the sermon, Matt Smith was talking about
our adoption into God's family. He proceeded to share an article
that he had read from the Baltimore Sun dated Sunday January
11, 2001 by Michael Olesker. The article spoke of a Baltimore
couple who had adopted two Russian orphans. When pastor Matt
read the part about Nina (the adopted girl), I felt something
in my heart snap. The part he read told the story of little Nina's
first meeting with her new dad. As he bent down and kissed here
for the first time, the article said "She'd never been kissed
by a man before". I suppose part of the reason that I had
such a strong reaction could be accounted for because of my six
children at the time (four of which were girls) and the fact
that not a day goes by that I don't kiss them and tell them that
I love them multiple times. However, I am convinced that the
real reason I reacted so strongly was because that snap in my
heart was from God. I proceeded to share my experience with my
wife and we began to pray about what this might mean.
A few days later I shared with Kathy (my wife)
that I believed that God wanted us to start a Foundation. The
Foundation would provide resources to families who are seeking
to adopt international children from orphanages. Kathy was open
but very skeptical, and rightfully so because I tend to have
about a million ideas per waking day. I continued by sharing
the concept with several of my business associates. I was overwhelmed
by some of the responses. One associate asked me a great question. "Why
wouldn't I start a Foundation to help all of the poor children
he sees everyday on the streets of Baltimore?" I respectfully
answered. You see there is not a child in America who couldn't
at the age of sixteen walk into a local fast food restaurant
and get a job making more in two weeks than most international
children could make in a year if they were fortunate to live
and be healthy enough to get a job at the age of sixteen. This
is not to minimize the plight of the poor in America or discredit
any humanitarian efforts to help!
Let me at this point interject a story about
a dear couple that our family knows. Wanting to fulfill a dream
for their marriage, they decided to pursue international adoption.
The total cost to adopt internationally is easily $20,000. They
had only a fraction of that and needed to borrow the balance
to go through with the adoption. To this day they are still paying
off the debt, but can't wait to finish so that they can once
again go into debt to help another international orphan or maybe
two to become a part of their loving family. This story helps
to explain why I would see the value in providing resources to
families seeking to adopt international orphans. I am convinced
that if finances weren't as big of an issue, that many more international
orphans could find hope being part of a loving adoptive family.
One last thought is that the bible speaks of orphans in James
1:27 where it says "This is pure and undefiled religion
in the sight of our God and Father, to visit orphans and widows
in their distress….". By God's grace I might have the privilege
of visiting orphans around the world, but how much more wonderful
if through the efforts of this Foundation, many international
orphans find loving adoptive homes!
Continuing on now with where we have come in
such a short time. We continued to wade further into the water
by sharing about the Foundation with several church friends and
again the responses were overwhelming. Finally, Kathy was convinced
that this was from God and we began to move forward as a family
in believing that this Foundation was to be born. To date we
have incorporated and have received our 501(C)3 (non-profit)
status. Many business associates that have heard our idea have
gotten behind us and have agreed to do the following pro bono:
1) Produce and print our initial brochure, 2) Create a web page,
3) Fill some of the key roles that will be needed to get the
Foundation functioning successfully. One business associate even
questioned how one "little man" expected to make such
a huge thing happen. I quickly replied that if it was one little
man making it happen then it couldn't, but if it is God through
one "little man", then anything is possible.
Dan Dubell
Founder, ICARE, Inc.
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